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Hi girls, if you have found this blog you might already know who I am. But relax - you can ask questions and have them answered here without ANYONE knowing who you are! How? Simply go to the first post and leave a comment anonymously. Your name will never be attached so neither I nor anyone else will know who asked it. But you can get answers to your questions about sex and relationships. You know - those questions that are to embarrassing to as your friends or that your mother would have a heart attack about or that you just don't feel like asking anyone in person. You can ask ANYTHING. Nothing embarrasses me. And I know a lot. And if I don't know, I'll find out for you. I'll also include links to resources that you might find helpful. Sex, bi-sexuality/being a lesbian, anal sex, oral sex, STD's, birth control - anything goes. So, go here and leave a comment to ask your question.

10 Things I Want Teenage Girls to Know...

Hi girls.

If you've found this blog you might actually know me.  And that's ok.  Because I'll never know that you found this blog.

You can ask your questions in the comments of this post.  I will repost the question with an answer.  If you bookmark the blog or save it or whatever you'll be able to come back and find the answer to your question.

Now 10 things I want you to know:
  1. There is no question that is too dumb.  Really.  It is better to ask and get an answer than wonder about it.  I will never laugh at you.
  2. You can ask any question that has to do with sex, relationships (with girls or boys, platonic or sexual), birth control.  I'll even answer questions that have nothing to do with sex.
  3. I'll provide links to sites that might be helpful.
  4. I am a feminist but not radical. I believe you can still be girly and be a feminist.
  5. I have had had my share of sexual relationships.  I'm not going to talk about that a lot because it isn't really relevant.  I just want you to know that I speak from experience but also from researched knowledge.
  6. I will be very honest and upfront.  I will not use technical language all the time.  
  7. I will answer questions as fast as possible but sometimes it might take me a couple of days.
  8. I don't believe that sex is evil or wrong.  But I do believe that sex can hurt you emotionally much more than it will ever hurt you physically if you are not prepared for it.
  9. I think that our generation (adults) have really screwed up when it comes to talking about sex.  We've given you the facts. But not the answers to the questions you want most.  I hope I can fix that.
  10. You can comment on other people's questions when the answers are given but don't you dare ever be negative or bitchy about it.  It takes a lot of guts to step up and ask a question and I'm not going to have this become a place where people are bitched at for wanting to know something. All comments are moderated and they won't be posted if they are bitchy.  
Now scroll down just a bit and ask me a question!

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